True, authentic expressions of thankfulness will be hindered if there is a root of offense or hurt in our hearts. Sometimes, offenses are blatant, but at other times, they can build over time and become hidden. If not dealt with, they can become a filter through which we perceive others, or even become an unhealthy perception of how we think we are perceived by others. Either way, this will prevent us from having a thankful heart and can actually lead to a hardened heart.
A great way to locate any hidden offenses is to spend some time thinking about what and who we are thankful for. If we find ourselves holding back thankfulness, or are having a hard time thinking of something or someone we are thankful for, this can be a good indication that there might be some roots of offense or hurt in our hearts.
Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves in love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body, you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. Colossians 3:13-15 NLT
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